Me.

The first step to enjoying the dating process is to know exactly what you’re dealing with. In a perfect world, it would be laid out in black in white. It would have pie charts, diagrams (for you boys out there), and a step-by-step guide.

I claim to hold no degree in relationship therapy or to be a “dating expert” (hello! I’m 32…and still single…), but I will hold nothing back, I will sugar coat nothing, and I will do my best to give you the honest (as I know it) truth about dating and relationships.

If dating were a college degree, I would have a PhD. (with honors, of course). With humor, mild abrasiveness, and amazing shoes, I will wade through the pond of lecherous pick-up lines, mind-numbing first dates, and sub-par dating sites. I currently reside in West Des Moines, among the nearly 54% of single women (more competition).

My take on dating may be of help to you, or simply make no sense at all. At the very least, you have my guarantee to be entertained. I hope someone finds humor in my misfortunes.

I bring to you one warning: I say what I want, I do what I want, and more often than not…I think out loud (Hey, I’m only saying what everyone else is thinking, but doesn’t have the guts to say!).

Don’t hate the player. Hate the game.
(Yep, I actually just said that!)

Comments
  1. Don says:

    I’m glad you have created a site for the sad and lonely drama queens out there.They need a place to blame others and you are a black goddess beacon in the night. (yep, I actually said that) You never took the time to listen to the Barry White version of “Just the way you are”. As a former DJ, Marvin Gaye would be ashamed of you. “Let’s get it on” is a classic sensual salute to sexuality. As a black sensual woman, you are weak and only represent sad women. How many relationships have you really had? Are you like so many hot women that had sex on the first date and got dumped as a result of false love? You are correct in the sense that you are not a “dating expert”. An expert would know better. Your take on dating makes no sense at all. Your advise is negative and offers no hope to women of all colors. Your idea of entertaining is drama, and a woman scorned…well. they think out loud. It only makes sense if you have relationship issues, mild abrasiveness and sadly you live in Iowa, your anger may gain a sense of loyality for the trailer park trash dead relationships, and the uneducated 54% of women who find comfort in man-bashing. The only chraracter flaw you have is anger. Shairing that with others may be healing for you, but solitude is like looking through coke bottle lenses…

  2. foro says:

    Me parece muy buena tu pagina web que habeis llamado Thinking Out Loud .
    Felicitaciones.

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